The topic of being over-scheduled has come up a bunch of times over the past few days. It’s hard to miss in a culture of people on-the-go. I read a post about someone working to declutter their schedule and thought, “ahhh, so nice to not have that problem any more.”
Oh wait.
Two hours later I was overwhelmed, in ballistic frustration mode because of too much to do with too little time. I had taken on commitments out of obligation that I should have declined.
So, about that whole “not having that problem anymore” thing…
I’ve been to the mountaintop where I reveled in clarity about my issues and felt strong in battling them. Every day is an opportunity to grow, but it’s also one day further from the mountaintop, where memory fades and old habits tiptoe back into routine.
I have written this list to keep as reminders this week ahead:
- My heart’s longings won’t be fulfilled with a busier schedule.
- I can’t make my troubles go away by scheduling over them.
- I can’t find peace without rest.
- My significance isn’t defined by my Outlook calendar.
September 25, 2015, 10:20 am
Joanie, I am glad you realized that you kept a very fast pace. Now maybe I can catch you. enjoy your extra five minutes!
October 17, 2023, 6:34 pm
Judith, I’m relieved you noticed how quickly you were moving. Perhaps I can catch you now. Cherish your additional five minutes!
September 11, 2024, 8:52 pm
Savor the extra five minutes you have!
November 16, 2024, 5:52 am
Wow, this is such a relatable post! The struggle of balancing commitments and avoiding an over-scheduled life is something many of us face. I love the honesty here, especially about how easy it is to slip back into old habits despite knowing better. The reminders you’ve written are powerful—especially the one about peace requiring rest. It’s a great reflection on the importance of setting boundaries and staying mindful of what truly matters. Thanks for sharing this—it’s a much-needed nudge for anyone feeling overwhelmed!
November 16, 2024, 5:53 am
Your post resonates deeply with so many of us caught up in the whirlwind of obligations and busy schedules. It’s so easy to slip back into old patterns, even after moments of clarity. The reminders you’ve written are a great way to ground yourself and refocus on what truly matters. That line about significance not being tied to an Outlook calendar is especially powerful—such an important truth to hold onto.